Ethan Joey Delgado

HEY EATHAN! JUST STOPiNG BY TO SHOW U SOME ♥ HOPE YOUR HAViNG FUN iN HEAVEN WiTH THE ANGELS! ;]!

 

HAVE FAitH in ME FOR MY TEST!

I am so sorry for the loss you have suffered. I have been down the road you are traveling, and now I am traveling down a different road, but it's still as painful.

 

Ethan is such a beautiful angel. I know he is in heaven with my Jordan and I know they are laughing and playing together, along with all the other angel babies. I know that when they go to sleep at night, they are having the sweetest lullabye sung to them.

 

You are in my thoughts and prayers, along with your family. Hugs to your little ones at home.

HEY i WAS jUST DROPPiN BY TO SHOW YOU SOME LOVE♥

Ethan you are missed by so many but I hope my Christopher is taking good care of you until your mommy sees you again keep sending angel kisses to your family and know that you will never be forgotten,

I just wanted you to know I was thinking of you and your family.  It is a pain that no mother should have to go through. I wouldn't wish this pain on anyone.  He was your hopes and dreams.  He was a person.  Just because he passed away does not mean that your dreams for him and love for him passes away... It is always there.  I know besides losing a child one of the biggest hurts are people who we thought would "get it" really don't.  They don't want to see you hurting so they suggest all sorts of things for you.  My advice do what feels right for you.  You carried him for over 5 months. 

I hope it is okay to share this poem on here with you, I think it sums it up:

 

What Makes A Mother?
-Anonymous*
I thought of you and closed my eyes
And prayed to God today
I asked "What makes a Mother?"
And I know I heard Him say.

"A Mother has a baby"
This we know is true
"But God can you be a Mother,
When your baby's not with you?"

"Yes, you can," He replied
With confidence in His voice
"I give many women babies,
When they leave is not their choice.

Some I send for a lifetime,
And others for the day.
And some I send to feel your womb,
But there's no need to stay."

"I just don't understand this God
I want my baby to be here."
He took a deep breath and cleared His throat,
And then I saw the tear.

"I wish I could show you,
What your child is doing today.
If you could see your child's smile,
With all the other children and say...

'We go to Earth to learn our lessons,
Of love and life and fear.
My Mommy loved me oh so much,
I got to come strait here.

I feel so lucky to have a Mom,
Who had so much love for me.
I learned my lessons very quickly,
My Mommy set me free.

I miss my Mommy oh so much,
But I visit her every day.
When she goes to sleep,
On her pillow's where I lay

I stroke her hair and kiss her cheek,
And whisper in her ear.
Mommy don't be sad today,
I'm your baby and I'm here.'

"So you see my dear sweet ones,
your children are okay.
Your babies are born here in My home,
And this is where they'll stay.

They'll wait for you with Me,
Until your lesson's through.
And on the day that you come home
they'll be at the gates for you.

So now you see what makes a Mother,
It's the feeling in your heart
it's the love you had so much of
Right from the very start

Though some on earth may not realize,
you are a Mother.
Until their time is done.
They'll be up here with Me one day
and know that you are the best one!"

Just sending a note to let your family know you are not alone in everything that you are going through. Ava, like Ethan has older sibblings that miss her so.  I think this makes everyting 10 times harder because they too were waiting for there brothers arrival just as everyone else.  The hardedst thing for me, was telling them there baby sister had died.  It just broke my heart. I know one day we will be reunited with our babies, but that does not make our journey through life any easier.  My heart goes out to your whole family, especially Ethan's brothers who have lost there baby brother.  They say that time will heal, i don't really think it does.  We will just learn how to deal with our loss, and still live our lives. May you all keep the memory of your baby boy alive.  God Bless !

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i am so sorry for you loss. i can feel your pain too. i lost my son in dec of 05 due to being born at 24 weeks as well. we was a 1.5 lbs and 11 inches long. if ever youd like to talk to someone whos gone threw it too feel free to get ahold of me. im always willing to leand an ear. my you fill the whole in your heart somehow and always know you will see your child again!! god bless.

I am so sorry for your lose and there are no words to take your pain away   but if you smile everyone will see your angel in your smile. i know my christopher is rocking your angel to sleep right now. my angel loved babies and even though he couldn't hold them while he was here I know he is making up for it now. I just know that God has made him the head honcho of the nursery up there. your angel has his wings wrapped tightly around you and all those who love him. I pray your love keeps you strong and know that you will see your angel again and will never have to let him go again. God bless you and those you love